Friday, July 22, 2011

6 Word Fridays: Love

This week's word is love -- how lovely, yes?  Thanks Melissa!



These past six years, I've often
thought of love.  What it is,
what it could be, what it
should be, what I want it
to be.  Since my divorce I
don't allow fanciful notions of love
not anymore - I want to see
it, feel it, taste it, know!

I've been with Hoosier Guy now
for eight plus months.  Learning, listening,
finding what I was missing before.
Turns out, I didn't know love,
I didn't understand what it means
to GET love as well as
GIVE it. Learning the love languages,
knowing which one appeals to me,
finding out which one he speaks.

My love language -- acts of service,
his love language is physical touch.
I move next week -- to him,
to 'our' space, he's worked hard,
to transform a dusty storage area
into a beautiful home for us.
He is speaking my love language,
and I am ever so thankful.

So, Hoosier Guy, this Friday is
for you -- my love, my darling.
Your acts of service for us
mean more than you can know. 
You've cleaned space, hauled trash out,
stained and sealed paneling, painted trims,
painted a chimeny, painted a bookshelf,
replaced ceiling tiles, hung ceiling fan,
painted walls, sanded floors, sealed floors,
planted flowers, hung lights, placed lights,
and installed welcome mat - for us.
There are other things, 'surprises' you
call them, which I'll see soon.
Acts of service - you love me.

I love you, my Hoosier Guy.
Thank you for making our home.


3 comments:

cj said...

Athena,

You have shown your love - and his - so beautifully in this piece. I envy you your romance, his eagerness to please you, your devotion to him. I am so glad that you are in such an incredible place. Savor it, protect it, revere it, hold on to it but not too tight.
You are one incredibly lucky chick!

Namaste..........cj

Aleea said...

CJ,

You are right, I am incredibly lucky. I am doing my best to savor, protect, revere and hold it - but definitely not too tight.

Thanks for your comment:)

Aleea

Melissa Camara Wilkins said...

Speaking each other's love languages is so helpful! Paying attention, figuring out what the other person needs: super lovely. :)